Everything I Knew About My Family On My Mother’s Side

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Short Stories Challenge – Everything I Know About My Family On My Mother’s Side by Nathan Englander from the collection What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank

Published February 8, 2015 by bibliobeth

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What’s Everything I Know About My Family On My Mother’s Side all about?:

This story is about a Jewish man who is worried that his family is not as interesting as his Bosnian girlfriends. When he digs into his past however, he finds a few stories that surprise him.

What did I think?:

First of all, I have to talk about the difference in the way this story was written compared to the other stories in the collection. The interesting thing about it is that it is compiled of short paragraphs in a numerical list 1-63, which I found a unique way to tell a tale and was instantly intrigued. As it begins, our Jewish (although he has given up his faith) narrator appears to be an onlooker watching a couple and the way they are talking. He is trying to figure out whether they are husband and wife but eventually settles on boyfriend and girlfriend then it turns out that the boyfriend or “little Jew” is actually him. His Bosnian girlfriend is desperately trying to pry information about him regarding his family, whom he regards as fairly ordinary with no exciting or interesting stories to tell.

We find out as the story continues that the girlfriend, or his “Bean,” as he likes to refer to her, has left him:

“45. It ended because another person wants you to need to be with them, with her, specific – not because you’re afraid to be alone.”

Our narrator delves a bit deeper into his past trying to learn as much as he can about his family primarily on his mother’s side. We find out that many things have been suppressed, forgotten or glossed over and emotions typically, in this family are never to be expressed:

“40. Do you want to know how I felt? Do you want to know if I cried? We don’t share such things in my family – we don’t tell this much even. Already I’ve gone too far. And put being a man on top of it; compound the standard secretiveness and shut-downness of my family with manhood. It makes for another kind of close-to-the-vest, another type of emotional distance, so that my Bosnian never knew what was really going on inside.”

Other sad discoveries include the death of his grandfather’s brother at the tender age of eight from a brain tumour. Although that wasn’t exactly the truth of the matter (he died from a cut on his hand which became septic). The family didn’t call a doctor in time so they dealt with their guilt by insisting that it was a brain tumour that afflicted him. Our narrator is spellbound about the family secrets he is unearthing but there is always an undercurrent of doubt about the truth behind them.

For me, I got more enjoyment out of this story by reading it a second time and noticing the smaller details that had escaped me on the first reading. As I mentioned previously I thought the layout of the story was very interesting and made it quite special to read and I loved that there was a mixture of both melancholy and happy moments – a boy peeing on a rabbi’s hat did make me chuckle a bit. The only thing I’m slightly unsure of in this tale is the ending. The author has put a hefty dose of sadness in it which tugs at your heart-strings but for some reason I found it slightly unfinished and was a bit disappointed. Saying that, he is a fantastic writer and I’m looking forward to seeing what he will do next.

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Challenge: Short Stories October to December

Published October 9, 2014 by bibliobeth

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It’s that time again short story fans! This is what I’ll be reading short story wise from now until the end of 2014.

Week beginning 6th October

 Looking Up Vagina by Jon McGregor from the collection This Isn’t The Sort Of Thing That Happens To Someone Like You

Week beginning 13th October

The Pool by Daphne Du Maurier from the collection The Breaking Point

Week beginning 20th October

Partial Eclipse by Graham Joyce from the collection Tales For A Dark Evening

Week beginning 27th October

The Fly And Its Effect Upon Mr Bodley by Michel Faber from the collection The Apple: New Crimson Petal Stories

Week beginning 3rd November

Busted by Karin Slaughter (stand-alone)

Week beginning 10th November

Nocturne by Kazuo Ishiguro from the collection Nocturnes: Five Stories Of Music And Nightfall

Week beginning 17th November

The Coffin-Maker’s Daughter by Angela Slatter from the collection A Book Of Horrors

Week beginning 24th November

The Call of Cthulhu by H.P. Lovecraft from the collection The Definitive H.P. Lovecraft

Week beginning 1st December

The Common Enemy by Natasha Cooper from the collection The Mammoth Book Of Best British Crime Volume 7

Week beginning 8th December

Note To Sixth-Grade Self by Julie Orringer from the collection How To Breathe Underwater

Week beginning 15th December

A Terribly Strange Bed by Wilkie Collins from the collection Stories To Get You Through The Night

Week beginning 22nd December

Mrs Todd’s Shortcut by Stephen King from the collection Skeleton Crew

Week beginning 29th December

Everything I Knew About My Family On My Mother’s Side by Nathan Englander from the collection What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank